Monthly Archives: February 2009

Songs to describe my life…

Another fun little quiz I took on Facebook and wanted to share with everyone! :-)

What I had to do was just list out the songs as they came up in shuffle mode. Here’s the responses to the questions the way my iPod would answer them. Funny how some of these turn out to be dead on… ;-)

IF SOMEONE SAYS ‘ARE YOU OKAY’ YOU SAY….?
My Glorious (Delirious)

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?
Holiness (Sonic Flood)

WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GUY/GIRL?
My Last Breath (Evanescense)

HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
That’s the Way (Spin Doctors)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE?
Come On (19 Wheels)

WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO?
Rhythm is a Dancer (Snap)

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
The Three Sunrises (U2)

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Miracle Maker (Delirious)

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
The Winner (Coolio)

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR FIRST KISS?
Think Twice (Celine Dion & Peabo Bryson) <------ I should have.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
Daughter (Pearl Jam)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
Ironic (Alanis Morissette) <----- Whoa...

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP
Under Pressure (Queen & David Bowie)

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Feels Like Tonight (Daughtry)

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
Sweetness Follows (R.E.M.)

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
I’ve Always Loved You (Third Day)

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Hang (Matchbox Twenty)

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST FEAR?

Behind the Sun (Red Hot Chili Peppers) <---- And I really am afraid of fire.
WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Someday I’m Coming Back (Lisa Stansfield)

WHAT DO YOU WANT RIGHT NOW?

God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen (Trans Siberian Orchestra)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
If Everyone Cared (Nickelback) <---- My all-time favorite song/music video

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
I’m Not That Girl (Kristen Chenoweth – Wicked)

25 Random Things…

So after the “heavy-ness” of the past few blog posts… I thought I’d give you all some great and random new information about me. There are a couple of blogs of this stuff (25 Random Things & Names I could go by) thus far… but I am looking to find more fun stuff like this before I get into the “serious” blogging again.

Anyway… so right now amongst my friends on Facebook, we are sharing 25 random details about ourselves. I decided this would be a great way to give some of you all some additional clues to my life and who I am.

Enjoy!

25 Random Things about Julie…

1. I don’t like drinking coffee… but I do like smelling it.

2. Moving to the south still sounds like the best thing for me. I hate snow. Too bad my job and family all exist where the snow flies.

3. I wanted to be an artist in 6th grade and did a mentorship project with a college student at the time. This art project still hangs in my bedroom today.

4. My birth month has about 5 different birthstones… and the only one I like is the Opal.

5. I flirted with a guy while driving on a road trip (he driving his vehicle, me driving my car). Exchanged numbers while driving. Then subsequently went out him. Not one of my finer moments… but oh so cute. (And yes, I still smile when thinking about this….)

6. Making lists is fun for me. I also like crossing things off my lists that I have made.

7. I have no hand-eye coordination… and while I love tennis, baseball, basketball and many other sports, I have no ability to play them.

8. The first piece of furniture I bought for my home was my overstuffed chair. And it’s my favorite item I own to this day.

9. While I am “paper creative” (graphic design, digital scrapbooking, making my own cards), never ask me to knit, crochet, quilt or sew. Bad things will happen.

10. I love the smell of a clean house, however… I hate to vacuum and wash windows.

11. Receiving letters or postcards from friends & family is a highlight for me. But I always seem to forget to actually get the mail from the mailbox. Maybe it’s because I know the bills will be there also.

12. I am a sucker for any movie that is classified as a romantic comedy. It really doesn’t even need to be good…

13. Learned my lesson about pet ownership in 8th-9th grades… unless you want to actually care for the pet – don’t own one. Oh, and they die too.

14. I went to Spain after 10th grade, but haven’t been back to Europe since. I regret this.

15. Olive Garden is my favorite restaurant and believe that their breadsticks are a gift given by God himself. They have to be. (Hmmm… anyone want to go to lunch now???)

16. I daydream all the time about things I wish would happen… and things I fear that will happen.

17. Name that Tune is not a game I am good at. I can sing (not well) the lyrics of the song, but don’t always know the title or artist. It causes issues on iTunes as well.

18. I love good movie quotes. I won’t necessarily be able to recite them off, but I know which movies have my favorite quotes.

19. When I chose to go to Hope College, going to their basketball games was on my “pro” list. I never went to a game while attending there. It’s probably a good thing it was not a very big factor on said list.

20. Walking is more fun to me than most other exercise… because I can socialize. I think that’s why I really enjoyed the Breast Cancer 3-day so much.

21. I have never seen a Star Wars Movie or anything with James Bond.

22. Chocolate is my drug of choice… in any form. Especially Chocolate Frosting.

23. I went for about 3 years without drinking alcohol… without any reason for it.

24. I have always been a “rebel”… It just shows now that I have the tattoo and piercing. ;-)

25. Last year I created a list of 30 things to do in life. I only accomplished one thing on that list last year… not a good starting average.

Names…

So I found this “game” on another blogger’s page… and thought I would fill it out as well.

Should I adopt one of these new names???

1 . WITNESS PROTECTION NAME:
(mother’s & father’s middle names)
Ann Jay

2. NASCAR NAME:
(first name of your mother’s dad, father’s dad)
Allan Herman

3. STAR WARS NAME:
(the first 2 letters of your last name, first 4 letters of your first name)
Dejuli

4.DETECTIVE NAME:
(favorite color, favorite animal)
Orange Fish

5. SOAP OPERA NAME:
(middle name, city where you live)
Mae Holland

6. SUPERHERO NAME:
(2nd favorite color, favorite alcoholic drink, optional: add “THE” to the beginning)
The Green Calimojo

7. FLY NAME:
(first 2 letters of 1st name, last 2 letters of your last name)
Juer

8. GANGSTA NAME:
(favorite ice cream flavor, favorite cookie)
Moosetracks Chocolate Chip

9. ROCK STAR NAME:
(current pet’s name, current or past street name)
Nun Crystal Waters (I don’t have a current pet… so I sufficed, and modified it a little)
:-)

10. PORN NAME:
(1st pet, street you grew up on)
Boots Oak Valley

Lonely…

Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve learned a lot about myself. I need to around people. I am social. Let me explain a bit more. As I have said in previous blogs, my roommate moved to Texas in search of employment. While we didn’t do much socially outside of the condo… we still hung out together and talked quite a bit. This is what I miss.

During the week I am ok, I go to the gym (and now interacting with my fellow classmates more often), am out with friends or at the bowling alley with “my” team. But then comes the weekend. Not that I am complaining that I don’t like the time to relax by myself… but I feel like I’ve been talking to myself an awful lot lately. That and I don’t have anyone around to “watch” me eat – or not eat in some cases.

About the food… I’ve found that if I am around people, I hold myself much more accountable (well, maybe not on vacay) than I do in “private”. And now that I live alone again, I am finding temptations becoming much more real all the time. Especially at night and on the weekends. I am now eating out of boredom or loneliness… not sure which… but it sure qualifies as emotional eating (something I’ve always dealt with.) So I am pretty much still above my goal weight by a couple pounds because I’ve been bumping myself between the same 4 pounds for about a month now. It’s really getting a little tiring, and I just need to slap myself back into program mode every few days, hours, minutes….

But as far as being by myself… I have been trying to reach out to friends more on the weekends, but I always feel bad thinking that I might be inturrupting something that they already have going on. I would love to get together with them more often, but for some reason, I just don’t ask. I need to work on that.

So in lieu of doing anything “fun” on Saturday night… I went for one of my drives. Granted, I didn’t go very far (and yes, I wanted to drive until I ran out of gas and just escape reality, but I stayed in the Holland area) but it was a really good way for me to try to clear my head and re-focus on things that I’ve been doing and need to do. During this drive I heard the song “By Your Side” by Tenth Avenue North. The words in this song really struck me… God was speaking right to my heart as I’ve been struggling with so many of the things mentioned in this song.

Here are the words to the song…
By Your Side
Tenth Avenue North

Why are you striving these days
Why are you trying to earn grace
Why are you crying
Let me lift up your face
Just don’t turn away

Why are you looking for love
Why are you still searching as if I’m not enough
To where will you go child
Tell me where will you run
To where will you run

Chorus:
And I’ll be by your side
Wherever you fall
In the dead of night
Whenever you call
And please don’t fight
These hands that are holding you
My hands are holding you

Look at these hands and my side
They swallowed the grave on that night
When I drank the world’s sin
So I could carry you in
And give you life
I want to give you life

(Chorus 2x)

Cause I, I love you
I want you to know
That I, I love you
I’ll never let you go

(Chorus 2x)

Needless to say, after hearing and pondering this song, in the last 24 hours I’ve been praying a lot more than I have in the recent past (something I’m not exactly proud to admit)… but hope that by doing that it will ease up some of the anxiety that I’ve been feeling about relationships (or lack thereof), the busyness of life, and simply just things that come up in my day-to-day life.

Off to get “un-bored”…

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